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You are not a good disability ally if you’re ableist.

January 16, 2017 Carly Findlay

This post contains some ableist language that might be triggering 

Yesterday I engaged with two people who excused their ableism by saying they work with children and adults with disability. No.

That’s like saying you know a black person so you can be racist.

Knowing a disabled person, or working with them is not a free pass to be ableist or discriminatory. 
One person admitted to not wanting disabled people represented in media and advertising, and the other admitted to using “fucktard” around friends with disability. Both said they work with disabled people.

You are not a good disability ally or support worker if you use ableist language and cannot see the problem.
You are not a good disability ally or support worker if you don’t listen to actually disabled people.

You are not a good disability ally or support worker if you say you’ve got friends with disability so it’s ok to be ableist, discriminatory and don’t see the need for disability representation in the mainstream.

You are not a good disability ally or support worker if you fail to amplify disabled voices, othering us and underestimating our ability. 

You are not a good disability ally or support worker if you regard your studies or work in disability to be above the lived experience of people with disability. 
You are not a good disability ally or support worker if you don’t educate yourself about the problem with ableist language, ableism and discrimination. 
You are not a good disability ally or support worker if you fight ableism and discrimination with the same behaviour. 
 #everydayableism
(Here’s a resource about ableism to get you started. Here’s another on the R-Word.)

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  1. Elisha Wright says

    January 17, 2017 at 3:04 am

    Hear hear Carly
    I've got an acquired disability so I've not live a full life with thsee issues. I'm still learning all the time and I respect those with much more experience then me. It drives me to tears of frustration when people refuse to listen to those who are actually experiencing the problem while those people are busy indignantly being the problem.

    Thank you for your courage to speak out on these issues.

  2. Amy HandbagMafia says

    January 17, 2017 at 3:04 am

    I know I have used ableist language without realising but I have also had people kindly let me know. It's not hard to apologise and allow yourself to learn more about such issues. Thanks Carly- you're someone I have learned from!

  3. Sharon says

    August 8, 2017 at 11:02 am

    I worked as a volunteer for Vision Australia for 17 years and experienced first-hand the hypocrisy of the organisation. As an able-bodied woman living with an intellectual disability (autism- not that I made this common knowledge, for fear of ridicule or unnecessary pity from others) I had empathy for the vision-impaired, because I had been treated unfairly by those who were ignorant. Eventually I left because bureaucracy got involved and changes were to be made to how the day-program was run. I have a very dim view of people who hold positions of power or are just there to collect a pay check. The only ones who should be involved in working with the disabled are those who have lived with disability, who truly understand it. Otherwise they’re just wasting their time and that of the ones who need assistance.

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