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Today is my wedding day.

March 19, 2016 Carly Findlay 12 Comments

Hand drawn portrait of Carly and Adam, with wedding date of 20 March 2016

Today I marry Adam. I am so excited, nervous and happy. I think we both are. It’s going to be amazing to see 60 of our closest family and friends we haven’t seen in a while, all in one room, hopefully having fun!

I can’t wait to see Adam in a suit – most days he’s in shorts and a hi-vis shirt, or a short sleeved casual shirt. I can’t wait to say my promise to him – and to hear his. We will have our first dance to a very special song. And I’ll get to wear my dress and a crown – I seriously feel like a princess in it!

I did a radio interview with the lovely Clare Bowditch earlier this week, and she asked if marriage is something I’ve always dreamed of. I said no, I never thought I’d get married, and it’s not something I aspired to either. Marriage often isn’t expected for people with disability – the burden of low expectations extends to love. Ive certainly experienced those low expectations and countless letting me down gentlies (and some thuds, too), and so I focused on other things like writing and study. I’ve lived a really fulfilled and independent life prior to and since meeting Adam, and I know we will continue to be successful in our own rights once we are husband and wife. Adam has shown me what real love feels like, and it’s only since I met him that I realistically imagined spending my life with someone else. Being loved is most wonderful.

It’s been lovely to see how excited people have been for us. We’ve had wishes and gifts from all across the world – from people who haven’t even met us. That portrait up there – it was drawn by the very talented Deb Baker (do follow her on her socials: Instagram, Facebook and Twitter). She sent us the original and we’ve framed it to display at the venue.

It’s almost two years to the day since we were engaged, so I feel we’ve been planning this wedding for ages (because we have!). The bulk of the planning (and saving) was done months ago, so I’ve been relaxing this past week. My tip: start planning and saving early. It saves stressing close to the big day. I know it’s not the done thing to talk about money, but I am so proud that Adam and I have saved for this wedding entirely ourselves, so we will not be in debt for our wedding. We’ve done a Melbourne wedding for less than $15,000. So bloody proud.

 

Of course our wedding will be on social media. You can follow along with the photos on my Facebook and Instagram through the day.

Thank you so much for the well wishes – we so appreciate it! Thank you to everyone who has helped to make this day so special – there are so many of you. We feel very loved.

Next time I write, I’ll be Mrs Carly Findlay Morrow.

(Images

Top: Hand drawn portrait of Carly and Adam, with wedding date of 20 March 2016. I am wearing a wedding dress, and Adam is wearing a blue suit and bow tie.

Bottom: Light box with #CarlyHeartsAdam.)

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  1. booksaremyfavouriteandbest says

    March 20, 2016 at 3:36 am

    Have a brilliant day Carly!

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  2. Thought of a Girl says

    March 20, 2016 at 3:36 am

    I hope today goes perfectly for you both. I can't wait to see the photos x

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  3. Kel says

    March 20, 2016 at 3:36 am

    All the best Carly and Adam! What a lovely day weather wise you have! Looking forward to seeing some photos throughout the day 🙂

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    • Maggie says

      May 17, 2017 at 11:19 am

      I don’t know you, dear sir, but this post punched me in the heart. It made me reflect on all of those nameless people who have shown up in my life at times when they were needed. An old, chatty man in a Greyhound station in Chicago, the woman offering to help with my luggage at the airport when I was travelling with a screaming tole2dr&#8d30; I’ve had my share of gracious, nameless people. I like to think that the world is full of them, and that (hopefully) sometimes I’m one of them.

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  4. Romana Toson says

    March 21, 2016 at 3:44 am

    Magic, enjoy every moment!!!

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  5. Sammie @ The Annoyed Thyroid says

    March 21, 2016 at 3:44 am

    I was following along on Instagram (but not in a stalker way) and everything looked perfection plus! I hope you both had a glorious day and enjoy your happily ever after x

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  6. Anonymous says

    March 21, 2016 at 3:44 am

    Wishing you all the best. I hope your day is perfect and your marriage is everything you hope and more. Love and best wishes always, Den xxx

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  7. Denyse Whelan. says

    March 21, 2016 at 3:44 am

    Happy Wedding Day Carly and Adam!

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  8. cilosophy says

    March 21, 2016 at 3:44 am

    Big love to you and Adam xxx

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  9. Deb Baker says

    March 22, 2016 at 3:49 am

    I've loved following along every step of the way the beautiful love story between you and Adam. Your day looked just how I know you imagined it to be. Absolutely perfect! It was an absolute honour doing the portrait of you both and I'm so pleased that you both love it. I am so proud that I got to play a small part in making your day special. Thank you so much for all the mentions and links to me. Much love to you both.

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  10. Carly Findlay says

    April 18, 2016 at 6:34 am

    Thank you

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  11. Carly Findlay says

    April 18, 2016 at 6:35 am

    Thank you so much for the well wishes everyone. I haven't met you all in person but I can certainly feel the love from afar.

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